Career Goals

The Back Story To Having Vision

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The most influential people in history are people that had, or have, enormous vision. They are people that saw what they desired their legacy to be and put in the work to walk towards that, no matter the distance. They are people that we look up to, are inspired by, and want to mirror. People of great influence were not born with any more talent or ability than you, the only thing that sets them apart is their determination to see their vision become their reality. In it’s most simple form of definition, your vision is what you want to accomplish with your life. Your vision is what you see when you imagine your most meaningful future. Helen Keller famously quoted, “The only thing worse than being blind is having sight but no vision.” Many of us would recognize Martin Luther King Jr. as a man with a vision that, quite literally, changed the future of an entire nation. But what does it actually take to not only determine what your vision is, but to walk towards it so boldly that your life, and the lives around you, are forever changed?

The story of Dr. King, as he was later called, usually picks up right around the time that he became nationally recognized as an influential subject in the fight to end racial injustice. What many of us aren’t aware of are the years of tedious work that King pushed through before ever being recognized. We don’t think about Dr. King as a newspaper delivery boy working long hours for very minimal pay. And we don’t think of him as the small town pastor that he was for many years before he became the leader that we remember him as today.

Having vision is taking the bird's-eye view of your life and deciding what you want it to look like overall. Your vision is expansive, large, undetailed, and full of passion. You may be wondering where to start on this journey of determining your vision. Start with discovering the answers to these questions:

What would bring me meaning and significance?

Push aside the idea of what you should be doing, and focus on what you desire to be doing. Is there a cause that you wish to be a part of? Do you crave to be home with your kid’s more than you are? Does the thought of going back to school excite you? Even if what you desire doesn’t make clear sense to you right now, your desires point you towards your vision. Write them down unedited and think upon them. Your vision doesn’t mean accomplishing certain goals by a certain date, your vision is what gives  your life meaning.

What causes me to feel significant now?

Look at the things that take up your time and ask yourself what significance they bring to you. The significance we are speaking of here is how you make meaning out of the world. If you find that the majority of your time is spent doing things that don’t bring you meaning, now is the time to re-shape your life step by step. Don’t be overwhelmed by that thought, be energized by it! You’re beginning to uncover what matters to you.

Who do I admire?

Who do you find yourself being inspired by? Perhaps it’s a public figure, or a neighbor, or spouse, or a friend. Whomever it is, learn their story. Everyone, and I mean everyone, that has influence has walked their own path that looked dull for a time. Similarly to Dr. King, we will all walk through parts of our own stories that seem arduous and unending while making our way towards our vision. Legacies take a lifetime to unfold.

It wasn’t until towards the end of his journey that Dr. King made his famous “I Have A Dream Speech.” We will never see our vision fulfilled until we continue down the path that may seem unending for a time. Remember that your vision is designed to give you meaning and your goals are designed to direct you towards that meaning. Dr. William Larkin said, “Goals are doorways to vision and that vision sometimes takes some time to unfold and navigate itself where it wants to go.”

So, create specific goals that guide you closer towards your vision. 

As a career management coach it would be easy to point people towards a job that seems to fit them on paper. But I want to help you find your vision, create your goals, and walk towards that legacy with you. My vision is that we pursue your vision together, not only in your career but in every corner of your life.

We’re in this together!

Are You Ready To Dream Again? Your Brain Is!

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Dreams can be challenging. The dreams that inspire, engage, and ultimately define your life that is.

Don’t you wish you had a roadmap to help you identify, understand, and accomplish them?

Whether you realize it or not, everyone has these types of dreams, and for the most part we tend to think more about “how to achieve” them versus “what” they actually are. Unfortunately, there is no 10 step program to accomplishing your wildest dreams, defining them, or even how to think about them appropriately. However, in this blog we’d like to help you identify a few ways you can understand your goals more effectively.

“It’s crucial that you understand that organizing your dreams as goals before trying to accomplish them actually works in unison with how your brain functions.”

Even if you think of yourself as scatterbrained, your brain has an enormous capacity for storing information in a tidy way; your brain desires specificity. Thus, as you can imagine, one of the greatest stressors on the brain is indecision. In short, you must make your dreams practical so they can be organized within your brain, and executed by your person.

Creating specific “dream” plans will help with this process. We call it The Post-it Challenge.

The first step is to purchase Post-it’s of all colors and start to write down all of your dreams, old and new, along with your goals. Put them everywhere. Your car, your journal, your mirrors, your fridge, your desk. Yes, your family might think you’ve gone insane, but this is the good kind of insane. Your brain is dreaming again and the ideas will be flowing more than ever.

You may find that you’re shy at first, writing down things that are relatively easy to accomplish. Don’t be afraid to write down the outlandish things; the things that seem impossible. Laugh at yourself, surprise yourself with your dreams! And don’t worry about the how. The key, for now, is to get your desires out of your brain and onto something tangible. If you want some guidance, focus on goals and dreams in these areas: 

  • Professional Life
  • Physicality
  • Spirituality
  • Intimacy
  • Family
  • Friends
  • Home
  • Adventure
  • Growth

Your ideas may seem random at first, but remember the mind is always looking for patterns. As you continue to add to these notes you may start to see how they work together. You may need to throw some away, add new ones. Or, you might have created the most honest list right away and start to work with it. There are no rules here. The only rule is - do it.

Make the space for dreaming in your life.

Once you get past the no rules stage and your ideas start to slow down (this may take months), become acquainted with your Post-it notes. Spend time reading them, thinking over them, seeing them everyday. And then the organization begins. Under each category (work, family, adventure..etc) write specific goals. More Post-it notes appear. Write huge goals that may take years to accomplish and write smaller goals that can lead you towards those larger goals. The point being that the smaller goals are action steps you can take now, and the larger goals are malleable and able to change over time as you change over time.

You may think this is silly but these steps of writing down what was previously stored in your head and in your heart are magic. By investing time in exploring your wants and desires, you’re beginning to unpack new and exciting goals and dreams. These realizations will lead you to people, places, and connections you may never have made otherwise.

The founder of the Applied Neuroscience Institute, Dr. William Larkin says, “Everything happens from a point of decision.” This is one of the most true things I have ever read. If you want to make a huge decision to change your life in any area, starting with the small decisions could change everything for you.

Are you ready to start taking action on your dreams? Schedule a one-on-one strategy session here.